我从十一楼跳下

当我从11楼跳下 

 我看到10F恩爱著称的阿呆夫妇正在互殴

 我看到9F平常坚强的Peter正在偷偷哭泣

8F的阿妹发现未婚夫跟最好的朋友在一起

7F的丹丹在吃她的抗忧郁症药

6F失业的阿喜还是每天读七份报找工作

5F受人敬重的王议员正在偷穿老婆的内衣

4F的Rose又和男友闹分手

3F的阿伯每天都盼望有人拜访他

2F的莉莉还在看她那结婚半年就失踪的老公照片

在我跳下之前，我以为我是世上最倒霉的人

现在我才知道每个人都有不为人知的困境

我看完他们之后深深觉得其实自己过得还不错……

所有刚才被我看的人现在都在看我

（朱德庸漫画：当我从11楼跳下）

“其实人的生活都是一样的，在觉得自己不幸的同时别人可能比自己更不幸。

我们不该因为小小的挫折而停止不前，自暴自弃，其实这个世界上比我们惨十倍甚至百倍的人很多，从某种意义上说我们都是幸运的！”

人生有起有落，还是知足常乐！ =P

如果死亡是必然的，那么，应该如何度度过仅有的一生？

“我以为我受到了很多苦，但是我不知道有那么多难受的人宁愿咬牙也要坚持走下去的感觉。反思自己，没有用尽全力去做一件事情，没有倾注身心去爱一样事情，更没有孤注一掷坚持过。作为拖延症重度患者，最近我体内的懒惰小孩快要将勤奋的小孩打死了。死前，勤奋小孩说，如果我们的生命不为自己留下一些让自己热泪盈眶的日子，你的生命就是白过的。”

来源自：人与人之间最小的差别是智商，最大的差别是坚持

Self-serving bias+Fundamental Attribution Error

Okayyys.. lets have a blog while preparing for final.. hmm..is about.. hohoho.. lets see..find it something good to think about in real life situation..

Fundamental Attribution Error--The tendency to overestimate the impact of personal disposition and underestimate the impact of the situations in analyzing the behaviors of others~

Actor observer bias-tendency to see other people’s behavior as dispositionlly caused, while focusing on the role of the situational factors in explaining one’s own behavior~

Self-serving bias--tendency to take credit for our success (internal attributions) but to blame the situation (external attribution) for our failures~

Found it related to : our judging, our thinking~

Lets reflect..
Do we like to just use our own standpoint to simply judge people?
Do we just know how to point our fingers to others without thinking of whether we have faults also upon the matter?
Do we keep on grumbling, keep on talking not good behind others without reflecting on ourselves? or without thinking that others may put so much patience on us too?

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. ~ Mother Theresa

SILENCE, sometimes is the best explanation when u really don't feel like explaining any longer, maybe?
Being silence is just nice when u r no longer feel like explaining to those that just use their own position to judge n criticize.. Perhaps they r not  significant  to waste your energy to explain? Perhaps even after your explanation,there is just nothing much value-added there.. or just make the thing worst..?
Before you accuse me, take a look at yourself. ~ Eric Clapton
Everyone is special, never judge on others.. Be respectful.. You will never know what are the others story behind, others true feeling, never, till u undergo what they have experienced..
It is an unnecessary burden to make negative judgmental assumptions about others. We are all on a journey. ~ Steve Maraboli
“Love is the only mirror we must use to judge ourselves and others.” 
― Bodie Thoene, A Daughter of Zion
We can never judge the life of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It’s one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it’s another to think that yours is the only path. ~ Paulo Coelho
The road in front is unpredictable, you are where you suppose to be.. that is perhaps your choice.. Don't blame on it k.. don't blame on the situation, don't blame on others, don't blame the Creator.. U r blessed some way, it really depends on whether u can see  those blessings through your wisdom eye.. I believe those life processes are worth our efforts n have their own values n meaning as long as we keep our mind positive, acts positively n look at or if can't see, find the blessings, even just the trivial stuffs~

Perhaps, I am different, I am weird, I am crazy..

People will judge you for no reason. Use the stones they cast to build a solid foundation because once you are strong, you are unstoppable. ~ Michael Kilby

I want to be the one that I want to be..
I choose my life, I choose my way, I choose what I want to do n to-be..
My life, I decide.. =)

Love those who know how weird, how crazy I can be, but still show me their undying, involuntary kindness n love~ Appreciate u all so much.. Muacks^^

Proud of my perseverance sometimes, hohoho.. XD
and after going for hiking with another bunch of friends, then only I know how much do they, PMP-hiking teammates, bear with me.. yea, I think I am the burden of the team.. TtQqqqqVVVVMMMMMM! =P

The route is unpredictable,  there are uphills on the way going downhills.. It has lots of branches.. The process, though it is exhausting and energy-depriving hehe.. I still like mountain climbing after all! :-p

不觉得那是累，我倒觉得那是实实在在的充实！=P