Fundamental Attribution Error--The tendency to overestimate the impact of personal disposition and underestimate the impact of the situations in analyzing the behaviors of others~
Actor observer bias-tendency to see other people’s behavior as dispositionlly caused, while focusing on the role of the situational factors in explaining one’s own behavior~
Self-serving bias--tendency to take credit for our success (internal attributions) but to blame the situation (external attribution) for our failures~
Found it related to : our judging, our thinking~
Lets reflect..
Do we like to just use our own standpoint to simply judge people?
Do we just know how to point our fingers to others without thinking of whether we have faults also upon the matter?
Do we keep on grumbling, keep on talking not good behind others without reflecting on ourselves? or without thinking that others may put so much patience on us too?
If you judge people, you have no time to love them. ~ Mother Theresa
SILENCE, sometimes is the best explanation when u really don't feel like explaining any longer, maybe?
Being silence is just nice when u r no longer feel like explaining to those that just use their own position to judge n criticize.. Perhaps they r not significant to waste your energy to explain? Perhaps even after your explanation,there is just nothing much value-added there.. or just make the thing worst..?
Before you accuse me, take a look at yourself. ~ Eric Clapton
Everyone is special, never judge on others.. Be respectful.. You will never know what are the others story behind, others true feeling, never, till u undergo what they have experienced..
It is an unnecessary burden to make negative judgmental assumptions about others. We are all on a journey. ~ Steve Maraboli
“Love is the only mirror we must use to judge ourselves and others.”
― Bodie Thoene, A Daughter of Zion
We can never judge the life of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It’s one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it’s another to think that yours is the only path. ~ Paulo Coelho
The road in front is unpredictable, you are where you suppose to be.. that is perhaps your choice.. Don't blame on it k.. don't blame on the situation, don't blame on others, don't blame the Creator.. U r blessed some way, it really depends on whether u can see those blessings through your wisdom eye.. I believe those life processes are worth our efforts n have their own values n meaning as long as we keep our mind positive, acts positively n look at or if can't see, find the blessings, even just the trivial stuffs~
Perhaps, I am different, I am weird, I am crazy..
People will judge you for no reason. Use the stones they cast to build a solid foundation because once you are strong, you are unstoppable. ~ Michael Kilby
I want to be the one that I want to be..
I choose my life, I choose my way, I choose what I want to do n to-be..
My life, I decide.. =)
Love those who know how weird, how crazy I can be, but still show me their undying, involuntary kindness n love~ Appreciate u all so much.. Muacks^^
Proud of my perseverance sometimes, hohoho.. XD
and after going for hiking with another bunch of friends, then only I know how much do they, PMP-hiking teammates, bear with me.. yea, I think I am the burden of the team.. TtQqqqqVVVVMMMMMM! =P
The route is unpredictable, there are uphills on the way going downhills.. It has lots of branches.. The process, though it is exhausting and energy-depriving hehe.. I still like mountain climbing after all! :-p
不觉得那是累，我倒觉得那是实实在在的充实！=P
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