See how fruitful I am this year! WoW~~
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1st time went Thai, 1st time exchange, 1st time sat train for so long, 1st time go "oversea" lolz~
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～读万卷书，行万里路～
敞开心灵之窗看世界，开拓视野，感受不同的文化背景，指标，拥抱大自然。。。
感受人生，享受人生！^^
Thursday, December 19, 2013
fruitful year 2013
Monday, December 16, 2013
it is just a process
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| Wif tis,finished the very first part of my fyp presentation..no formal T &shoes, no slides, proposal still under process, in sitting position when presenting,not more than 30 minutes time...get it done without knowing tat I nid to present! *unbelievable* omg..@@ haha.. |
Not well n thoroughly presented.. Yet, lucky tat i got bring my drafts there to see him, my evaluator, as I was thinking to go with empty hand at first.. haha..luckily had prepared my slide the day before, though didn't use it at all, at least can roughly speak on it haha..
Lucky? yea, I am blessed..
Still remember I mentioned before, life is made up of bit by bit processes.. And yeah, this is one of the many.. but that doesn't mean that we can cincai (simply) do it, cincai settle it.. Instead, we should do our best in the every processes.. When we give our best on every single of it, then we are meant to give all our best in our life, too.. Just like the quality of final product, depends not only on one aspect, but on many different aspects, different processes, e.g. the planning, the operations in processing the products, the problem solving etc.. and so do life~
Perhaps, it is the process that teaches us many things: the skills, some realization, some life lessons, some valuable experiences, despite we may not be able to see how significant or how useful the process is, to apply in future.. Just be patient, and keep the faith.. And do our best~ and so everything will come to light one day..
Still remember my good friend told me something which is so encouraging: You may not know there are people who wish to become like you.. She was indirectly telling me that: we shouldn't look down on ourself.. Thanks Jez, you are so supportive along the way.. =)
Somehow, we shouldn't judge merely on what we see..
我看你好,你看我好~ We may not know what the other people have gone through behind without our knowledge in order to have that elegant, graceful, gorgeous, winning smile and success.. Just like I doesn't want to be those well-known people, as I know there might be some bitter experiences which not everyone can endure..
“印度有一个寓言故事，叫“交换痛苦”。
佛陀为了消除人间的痛苦，选了100个自认为生活得最痛苦的人，让他们每个人在一张纸上写下自己的痛苦。然后，要他们不断地互相交换记录各自痛苦的纸张，认真看看。最后，要他们选择一下，留下自己可以接受的痛苦。
结果，几乎每个人都要找回自己的那张纸~"
Yea, I will, too, pick up mine.. ^^
Sometimes, I wish Doraemon had a “角色交换”棒 ( role-switching stick), especially for those who keep complaining about their life, not feeling grateful, not realizing how blessed they actually are, to exchange with those that struggle so much behind, yet still able to stand up still and keep going positively despite life fails them..
Wish 'm able to stand on other people shoes, see through other's people eyes.. wish to bring more happiness n comfort to others by being more alert.. wish to be more considerate n understanding by being more observative.. That's what some people have given to me: caring, kind, love, hope, alert, enter and integrate their world with mine, which have made me feel really warm, secured and comfortable to be with! Shouldn't just take without giving out.. So, yeah.. Self-transformation is seriously needed to achieve these.. Perhaps I need to get myself more involve in every process? haha..
The moment I decide to be a positive person, my life changes to be more n more beautiful~ cheers (^_^)
Friday, December 13, 2013
功课
对“死亡”--这门学问开始起了研究～
对摄影起了兴趣～
对人生与人生哲理想领悟和了解更多更多～
While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die. ~Leonardo Da Vinci
Death is beautiful when seen to be a law, and not an accident - It is as common as life. ~Henry David Thoreau, 11 March 1842, letter to Ralph Waldo Emerson
["每个人都知道自己要死，"莫里重复道，"可没人愿意相信。如果我们相信这一事实的话，我们就会作出不同的反应。"
“Everyone knows they’re going to die,” he said again, “but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently.”
“Yes. But there’s a better approach. To know you’re going to die, and to be prepared for it at any time. That’s better. That way you can actually be more involved in your life while you’re living.”
‘意识到自己会死，并时刻作好准备。这样做会更有帮助。你活着的时候就会更珍惜生活’
“Do what the Buddhists do. Every day, have a little bird on your shoulder that asks, ‘Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?”
"像佛教徒那样。每天，放一只小鸟在你的肩膀上问，'是今天吗？我准备好了吗？能生而无悔，死而无憾了？'"
“once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.”
"学会了死，就学会了活。"
“most of us all walk around as if we’re sleepwalking. We really don’t experience the world fully, because we’re half-asleep, doing things we automatically think we have to do.”
"我们大多数人都生活在梦里。我们并没有真正地在体验世界，我们处于一种浑浑噩噩的状态，做着自以为该做的事。"
“The things you spend so much time on—all this work you do—might not seem as important. You might have to make room for some more spiritual things.”
"你为此而付出时间和精力的事--你所做的工作--也许就不再显得那么重要了。你也许会让出空间来满足精神上的需求。"
"拂去外表的尘埃，你便看到了生活的真谛。当你意识到自己快要死去时，你看问题的眼光也就大不一样了。"
“even I don’t know what ‘spiritual development’ really means. But I do know we’re deficient in some way. We are too involved in materialistic things, and they don’t satisfy us. The loving relationships we have, the universe around us, we take these things for granted.”
"尽管我说不上来'精神产物'到底为何物，但我知道我们在有些方面确实是有缺陷的。我们过多地追求物质需要，可它们并不能使我们满足。我们忽视了人与人之间互相爱护的关系，我们忽视了周围的世界。"
“Yes. I look out that window every day. I notice the change in the trees, how strong the wind is blowing. It’s as if I can see time actually passing through that windowpane. Because I know my time is almost done, I am drawn to nature like I’m seeing it for the first time.”
"你看见了？你可以去外面，任何时候。你可以在大街上发疯似地跑。可我不能。我不能外出。我不能跑。我一出大门就得担心生玻但你知道吗？我比你更能体味那扇窗户。"]
FROM : Tuesdays with Morrie (相约星期二）
"The two hardest things to say in life, are hello for the first time, and goodbye for the last~"
"When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a wonderful treasure to always hold in your heart miss you forever & always."
Blogging do give me some strength.. It acts as a reminder to me~ In case I forget.. the feelings, the processes, the points, the moments, the experiences, the memories, the life lessons, whatever that i have had and learned.. To remind me how blessed I am.. to remind me how grateful to have those significant people in my life..
And how far I have come to..
死亡，如果是一个不幸，可是不放防假设一个死亡的功课，然后你用这个眼睛，去看你自己周遭的东西，你会觉得好像每一样都好珍惜。-- 蔣勳
"The only time you should look back in life, is to see how far you have come." Kevin Hart quotes
《生命纪念册》
有人用文字写日记、有人用相机留下纪录，你会用什麽来呈现一生？毕业生写毕业纪念册，人生就要有一本「生命纪念册」。
因为没有人能预测明天将会发生什麽事、也没有人保证下一秒是否还在世上，跟著册中的指引，将生命中最重要的人事物写下来，让谢谢、对不起、我爱你圆满整个生命，也让每位爱你的人都能在你离去时平安不慌张。
最想说的话、最想对谁说话、想要用何种方式告别最爱的人┅，种种的生命历程，在「生命纪念册」中都能获得解答。
你送过最棒的礼物是什麽？你收过最窝心的礼物是什麽？
生命纪念册~一份充满爱的礼物
(摘自网路）
Lets make this blog as my 生命纪念册 too!
"Whatever i have tried to do in life, I have tried to do with all my heart to do it well; whatever i have devoted myself to, I have devoted myself completely; in great aims and in small I have always thoroughly been in earnest"
对摄影起了兴趣～
对人生与人生哲理想领悟和了解更多更多～
While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die. ~Leonardo Da Vinci
Death is beautiful when seen to be a law, and not an accident - It is as common as life. ~Henry David Thoreau, 11 March 1842, letter to Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Everyone knows they’re going to die,” he said again, “but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently.”
“Yes. But there’s a better approach. To know you’re going to die, and to be prepared for it at any time. That’s better. That way you can actually be more involved in your life while you’re living.”
‘意识到自己会死，并时刻作好准备。这样做会更有帮助。你活着的时候就会更珍惜生活’
“Do what the Buddhists do. Every day, have a little bird on your shoulder that asks, ‘Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?”
"像佛教徒那样。每天，放一只小鸟在你的肩膀上问，'是今天吗？我准备好了吗？能生而无悔，死而无憾了？'"
“once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.”
"学会了死，就学会了活。"
“most of us all walk around as if we’re sleepwalking. We really don’t experience the world fully, because we’re half-asleep, doing things we automatically think we have to do.”
"我们大多数人都生活在梦里。我们并没有真正地在体验世界，我们处于一种浑浑噩噩的状态，做着自以为该做的事。"
“The things you spend so much time on—all this work you do—might not seem as important. You might have to make room for some more spiritual things.”
"你为此而付出时间和精力的事--你所做的工作--也许就不再显得那么重要了。你也许会让出空间来满足精神上的需求。"
"拂去外表的尘埃，你便看到了生活的真谛。当你意识到自己快要死去时，你看问题的眼光也就大不一样了。"
“even I don’t know what ‘spiritual development’ really means. But I do know we’re deficient in some way. We are too involved in materialistic things, and they don’t satisfy us. The loving relationships we have, the universe around us, we take these things for granted.”
"尽管我说不上来'精神产物'到底为何物，但我知道我们在有些方面确实是有缺陷的。我们过多地追求物质需要，可它们并不能使我们满足。我们忽视了人与人之间互相爱护的关系，我们忽视了周围的世界。"
“Yes. I look out that window every day. I notice the change in the trees, how strong the wind is blowing. It’s as if I can see time actually passing through that windowpane. Because I know my time is almost done, I am drawn to nature like I’m seeing it for the first time.”
"你看见了？你可以去外面，任何时候。你可以在大街上发疯似地跑。可我不能。我不能外出。我不能跑。我一出大门就得担心生玻但你知道吗？我比你更能体味那扇窗户。"]
FROM : Tuesdays with Morrie (相约星期二）
"The two hardest things to say in life, are hello for the first time, and goodbye for the last~"
Blogging do give me some strength.. It acts as a reminder to me~ In case I forget.. the feelings, the processes, the points, the moments, the experiences, the memories, the life lessons, whatever that i have had and learned.. To remind me how blessed I am.. to remind me how grateful to have those significant people in my life..
And how far I have come to..
死亡，如果是一个不幸，可是不放防假设一个死亡的功课，然后你用这个眼睛，去看你自己周遭的东西，你会觉得好像每一样都好珍惜。-- 蔣勳
"The only time you should look back in life, is to see how far you have come." Kevin Hart quotes
《生命纪念册》
有人用文字写日记、有人用相机留下纪录，你会用什麽来呈现一生？毕业生写毕业纪念册，人生就要有一本「生命纪念册」。
因为没有人能预测明天将会发生什麽事、也没有人保证下一秒是否还在世上，跟著册中的指引，将生命中最重要的人事物写下来，让谢谢、对不起、我爱你圆满整个生命，也让每位爱你的人都能在你离去时平安不慌张。
最想说的话、最想对谁说话、想要用何种方式告别最爱的人┅，种种的生命历程，在「生命纪念册」中都能获得解答。
你送过最棒的礼物是什麽？你收过最窝心的礼物是什麽？
生命纪念册~一份充满爱的礼物
(摘自网路）
Lets make this blog as my 生命纪念册 too!
"Whatever i have tried to do in life, I have tried to do with all my heart to do it well; whatever i have devoted myself to, I have devoted myself completely; in great aims and in small I have always thoroughly been in earnest"
Wednesday, December 11, 2013
harmonious n so feel peaceful
When do we know that we have made the right choice?
When we feel peaceful with our decisions..
When our actions are in accordance with our mindset..
When our actions are in harmonious with our philosophical values..
When we know that we will not regret for the decisions made..
"Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things." Frank A. Clark
Life is made up of the bit by bit processes..
Decision making process is inevitable
Different decision lead us to different direction
When we feel peaceful with every decision made,
When we feel peaceful with every processes,
At the END, we will feel peaceful with our life..
“Life's just a bunch of accidents, connected by one perfect end.” Daniel C. Tomas
“I will fight until the end” Breaking Benjamin
Life is full of unforeseen circumstances
full of surprise
full of excitement
And so train ourselves to be more FLEXIBLE--the ability to make changes or deal with a situation as it changes..
“It is wonderful how much may be done if we are always doing.” Thomas Jefferson
Yea, I choose to be there.. Despite the assignments and homework, despite the Korean class, yet I felt peaceful, really~ And from there I know, I had made a wise choice, a wise decision.. =) To see you so surprise, to see you so happy, everything is all worth =) I will not gain these mixture of touched, happy, loved and those indescribable feelings if I choose to spend all my times with my own personal stuffs.. Never..
"Life is an exciting business, and most exciting when it is lived for others." Helen Keller
And after coming back, then I was told by my friend that the Korean class was cancelled that day.. omg.. is really.. There was once I was thinking, how good if this week no Korean TOPIK class~ and yeah, it proves to me AGAIN, POSITIVE attracts POSITIVE.. thanks~ ^^ *Keep the FAITH*
“People tend to be generous when sharing their nonsense, fear, and ignorance. And while they seem quite eager to feed you their negativity, please remember that sometimes the diet we need to be on is a spiritual and emotional one. Be cautious with what you feed your mind and soul. Fuel yourself with positivity and let that fuel propel you into positive action.”
― Steve Maraboli
“Get going. Move forward. Aim High. Plan a takeoff. Don't just sit on the runway and hope someone will come along and push the airplane. It simply won't happen. Change your attitude and gain some altitude. Believe me, you'll love it up here.”
― Donald Trump
Dear, you said, am willing to sacrifice my time for you, you said am really take the actions to do.. You said you really agree with what I said: "时间是给一个人的最佳礼物。。" But dear, you know how much it is to pay for this lesson... I don't want to make myself regret any longer.. You know what is the main force that pull me there? is because, I don't wanna to make myself regret later on..
I have learned, for every decision made, every action take, make sure that it won't make you regret, not only at the current moment, but also in future, in life..
“As you grow older, you'll find the only things you regret are the things you didn't do.” Zachary Scott
"At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent." Barbara Bush
You said you felt bad because you was unable to spare your time with us.. But you know, to see you, even just for a short moment is so much precious to me.. You did spend a lot of your time with us too, just you didn't realize.. You too, put a lot of your efforts and your sincere heart with us too^^
Things finally fall into place.. The questions I keep asking, the life lessons which I hope to learn more will fall into place one day.. Perhaps to get all these answers, what we can do is; go out and experience, explore, every little, every single moment, process in life.. Be present, appreciate the moment.. Sometimes, we will got the answers during the processes, at a time where we less expect..
"Always Do Your Best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret." Miguel Angel Ruiz
"We are at our very best, and we are happiest, when we are fully engaged in work we enjoy on the journey toward the goal we've established for ourselves. It gives meaning to our time off and comfort to our sleep. It makes everything else in life so wonderful, so worthwhile." Earl Nightingale
Yea, Life, is full of excitement! B-)
“At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made, how many great things we have done.
We will be judged by "I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in.” ― Mother Teresa
When we feel peaceful with our decisions..
When our actions are in accordance with our mindset..
When our actions are in harmonious with our philosophical values..
When we know that we will not regret for the decisions made..
"Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things." Frank A. Clark
Life is made up of the bit by bit processes..
Decision making process is inevitable
Different decision lead us to different direction
When we feel peaceful with every decision made,
When we feel peaceful with every processes,
At the END, we will feel peaceful with our life..
“Life's just a bunch of accidents, connected by one perfect end.” Daniel C. Tomas
“I will fight until the end” Breaking Benjamin
Life is full of unforeseen circumstances
full of surprise
full of excitement
And so train ourselves to be more FLEXIBLE--the ability to make changes or deal with a situation as it changes..
“It is wonderful how much may be done if we are always doing.” Thomas Jefferson
Yea, I choose to be there.. Despite the assignments and homework, despite the Korean class, yet I felt peaceful, really~ And from there I know, I had made a wise choice, a wise decision.. =) To see you so surprise, to see you so happy, everything is all worth =) I will not gain these mixture of touched, happy, loved and those indescribable feelings if I choose to spend all my times with my own personal stuffs.. Never..
"Life is an exciting business, and most exciting when it is lived for others." Helen Keller
And after coming back, then I was told by my friend that the Korean class was cancelled that day.. omg.. is really.. There was once I was thinking, how good if this week no Korean TOPIK class~ and yeah, it proves to me AGAIN, POSITIVE attracts POSITIVE.. thanks~ ^^ *Keep the FAITH*
“People tend to be generous when sharing their nonsense, fear, and ignorance. And while they seem quite eager to feed you their negativity, please remember that sometimes the diet we need to be on is a spiritual and emotional one. Be cautious with what you feed your mind and soul. Fuel yourself with positivity and let that fuel propel you into positive action.”
― Steve Maraboli
“Get going. Move forward. Aim High. Plan a takeoff. Don't just sit on the runway and hope someone will come along and push the airplane. It simply won't happen. Change your attitude and gain some altitude. Believe me, you'll love it up here.”
― Donald Trump
Dear, you said, am willing to sacrifice my time for you, you said am really take the actions to do.. You said you really agree with what I said: "时间是给一个人的最佳礼物。。" But dear, you know how much it is to pay for this lesson... I don't want to make myself regret any longer.. You know what is the main force that pull me there? is because, I don't wanna to make myself regret later on..
I have learned, for every decision made, every action take, make sure that it won't make you regret, not only at the current moment, but also in future, in life..
“As you grow older, you'll find the only things you regret are the things you didn't do.” Zachary Scott
"At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent." Barbara Bush
You said you felt bad because you was unable to spare your time with us.. But you know, to see you, even just for a short moment is so much precious to me.. You did spend a lot of your time with us too, just you didn't realize.. You too, put a lot of your efforts and your sincere heart with us too^^
Things finally fall into place.. The questions I keep asking, the life lessons which I hope to learn more will fall into place one day.. Perhaps to get all these answers, what we can do is; go out and experience, explore, every little, every single moment, process in life.. Be present, appreciate the moment.. Sometimes, we will got the answers during the processes, at a time where we less expect..
"Always Do Your Best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret." Miguel Angel Ruiz
"We are at our very best, and we are happiest, when we are fully engaged in work we enjoy on the journey toward the goal we've established for ourselves. It gives meaning to our time off and comfort to our sleep. It makes everything else in life so wonderful, so worthwhile." Earl Nightingale
Yea, Life, is full of excitement! B-)
“At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made, how many great things we have done.
We will be judged by "I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in.” ― Mother Teresa
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
surprise
LAST weekend is just like a dream..
It was kinda mix feelings to say..
touched to see that u had come that far from the original point
touched to see how strong n optimistic gal u are
touched to see your growing process after going through some turning points and there u come
touched to know that I have a place in you even after apart for so long
sad for missing the old old times so so much that v cant go backwards any longer
sad that v r so busy with our own stuffs that v didn't contact as much as v did before
sad that v r unable to see each other everyday as v once were
sad that I might not always be by your side whenever you going through
sad that I wish I were more alert n considerate people, so to bring you more joyous, comfort, n happiness
sad that time changes things
happy to see u
happy to see u happy
happy to be able to witness the process
happy that there is still a non-stop conversation when we get together
happy that we still share the same philosophical values
happy that you told me something touched me so so deeply
grateful that we are friends with so much common in personality which could in fact not so easy to find one
grateful that u have taught me so much on life and many other matters
grateful that u have been so kind, so nice , so considerate and alert to me
grateful that u treat people with the sincere heart
grateful to meet u in my life
grateful that u had accompanied me at some points in my life
grateful that u had once changed the quite gal into a crazy gal that simply laugh without any reason
grateful for all the sweet memories in which v were together
grateful that u know so many faults of mine, how emo I can go to, but still able to bear with me which even I cant
grateful for being so kind so loved
Feel even more touched n happy to see u felt touched n happy!
haha.. Sweet sweet k~
Proud of u, dear~
Miss u~
Friendship forever!
Special for u, Shi Yew, my best friend ever =) Take care n fighting together la~ *huggies*
It was kinda mix feelings to say..
touched to see that u had come that far from the original point
touched to see how strong n optimistic gal u are
touched to see your growing process after going through some turning points and there u come
touched to know that I have a place in you even after apart for so long
sad for missing the old old times so so much that v cant go backwards any longer
sad that v r so busy with our own stuffs that v didn't contact as much as v did before
sad that v r unable to see each other everyday as v once were
sad that I might not always be by your side whenever you going through
sad that I wish I were more alert n considerate people, so to bring you more joyous, comfort, n happiness
sad that time changes things
happy to see u
happy to see u happy
happy to be able to witness the process
happy that there is still a non-stop conversation when we get together
happy that we still share the same philosophical values
happy that you told me something touched me so so deeply
grateful that we are friends with so much common in personality which could in fact not so easy to find one
grateful that u have taught me so much on life and many other matters
grateful that u have been so kind, so nice , so considerate and alert to me
grateful that u treat people with the sincere heart
grateful to meet u in my life
grateful that u had accompanied me at some points in my life
grateful that u had once changed the quite gal into a crazy gal that simply laugh without any reason
grateful for all the sweet memories in which v were together
grateful that u know so many faults of mine, how emo I can go to, but still able to bear with me which even I cant
grateful for being so kind so loved
Feel even more touched n happy to see u felt touched n happy!
haha.. Sweet sweet k~
Proud of u, dear~
Miss u~
Friendship forever!
Special for u, Shi Yew, my best friend ever =) Take care n fighting together la~ *huggies*
Friday, December 6, 2013
Learn before it is too late
Sometimes, I wonder, will it be too late for us to treat others better? Will v treat other people in different way if v know their little life story behind, or the struggles undergone by them? (knowing that everyone of us own a unique life story).. Will there be other chance for us to treat others better? Will it too late to realize or to reveal their life story? Would it be too late when we got to know what really happened? would it be too late the kind word, caring n support come?
Still remember I once asked: till when I would learn to be more alert, to appreciate, before v eventually had no choice but to let go? After some searching n readings through the inspiring quotes as well as own thinking and curiosity, now I realized, test will be given to us again n again, again n again, until we readily pass through those tests with consistent flying colours, perhaps~ For every test, every problems, definitely there will be solutions for it, just maybe v need to repeatedly undergo the similar tests with the same objective, till v finally find our ways out..
Lets refresh back, what tests, that v had undergone again n again, which transformed us into the person v r now?
"Everything that happens in life is neither good nor bad. It just depends on your perspective. And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should. Either you succeed or you learn something. So stay positive, appreciate the pleasant outcomes, and learn from the rest. Your positivity will rub off on everyone around you."
Sometimes, I am dreamed, dreamed that I could embrace her again.. but the moment I woke up, my heart sunk~ because that will never going to happen, till the point v meet one day.. The fact that you had left, still remained unreal to me sometimes, though you had left for almost eight months.. I know, I really know, v shouldn't cry for the same reason again n again. but it is just kinda.......during the time when u just cant stop thinking: why I don't do something when I still got the chance?! The feeling of losing someone that u have always taken granted for, that you didn't know how to appreciate, that u just know how to receive the love without giving back, but still love you more than they love themselves.....the feeling is kinda..............(no exact word can be used to describe how the feeling like~)
I miss u, 阿嫲～Love you, 永远爱您～ <3
I really need to thank my dear friends, Shu xian, Lai yee for the instant, warmth messages when that time we are in different states due to semester break.. Still remember the time I was almost burst into tears in front of sx, as for the first time, after so long (the day before v go to Taipei, so is already about seven months), telling her the "thorns" inside my heart that stabbed on me, how I actually think & feel.. Thanks for all the kind and caring words, telling me that she wouldn't be happy too, to see you unhappy~ She can't go with peace when seeing us so sad~ Thanks also to Weng Loon, even just a simple question: 'are u ok?' had given me so much positive energy~ Thanks~ =)
Perhaps, I am still learning~ Perhaps, learning is a continuous process in life, perhaps life is a continuous learning process~ haha, do it make any difference?
"Life is about management" --988今晚最night听
Same goes with my final year uni life now, non-stop assignments, tutorials, editing FYP, this and that, that and this..
Maybe, that's one of the test given to teach us how to manage our time efficiently, to be more systematic in life, to remain calm and steady for whatever that comes to you, to remain positive despite the unforeseen circumstances, to balance up every element in life, e.g. family, friend, study, works, spirit, wisdom, EQ etc.. I saw the hidden blessings behind, how about u? Be positive, smile, just because life has given us a chance to learn! To learn before it is getting too late........
Despite the busy life, I still wana to live my life with the philosophies~ to enjoy my life, to explore more, and to discover the beauty in life! haha.. =)
I wish, when the day finally comes, there will be some voice whispering: "I had been recording your life story, every single deeds u have done, good and bad, and here it is", "you had done a great job, you had conquered whatever tests that had given" "Congrates that you learnt the power of gratitude, love, and faith" "Congrates that you had come that far" "Congrates that you had learnt to let go" "Congrates that you have learned, without escaping, even though the process might not be that easy"... B-)
Still remember I once asked: till when I would learn to be more alert, to appreciate, before v eventually had no choice but to let go? After some searching n readings through the inspiring quotes as well as own thinking and curiosity, now I realized, test will be given to us again n again, again n again, until we readily pass through those tests with consistent flying colours, perhaps~ For every test, every problems, definitely there will be solutions for it, just maybe v need to repeatedly undergo the similar tests with the same objective, till v finally find our ways out..
Lets refresh back, what tests, that v had undergone again n again, which transformed us into the person v r now?
"Everything that happens in life is neither good nor bad. It just depends on your perspective. And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should. Either you succeed or you learn something. So stay positive, appreciate the pleasant outcomes, and learn from the rest. Your positivity will rub off on everyone around you."
Sometimes, I am dreamed, dreamed that I could embrace her again.. but the moment I woke up, my heart sunk~ because that will never going to happen, till the point v meet one day.. The fact that you had left, still remained unreal to me sometimes, though you had left for almost eight months.. I know, I really know, v shouldn't cry for the same reason again n again. but it is just kinda.......during the time when u just cant stop thinking: why I don't do something when I still got the chance?! The feeling of losing someone that u have always taken granted for, that you didn't know how to appreciate, that u just know how to receive the love without giving back, but still love you more than they love themselves.....the feeling is kinda..............(no exact word can be used to describe how the feeling like~)
I miss u, 阿嫲～Love you, 永远爱您～ <3
I really need to thank my dear friends, Shu xian, Lai yee for the instant, warmth messages when that time we are in different states due to semester break.. Still remember the time I was almost burst into tears in front of sx, as for the first time, after so long (the day before v go to Taipei, so is already about seven months), telling her the "thorns" inside my heart that stabbed on me, how I actually think & feel.. Thanks for all the kind and caring words, telling me that she wouldn't be happy too, to see you unhappy~ She can't go with peace when seeing us so sad~ Thanks also to Weng Loon, even just a simple question: 'are u ok?' had given me so much positive energy~ Thanks~ =)
Perhaps, I am still learning~ Perhaps, learning is a continuous process in life, perhaps life is a continuous learning process~ haha, do it make any difference?
"Life is about management" --988今晚最night听
Same goes with my final year uni life now, non-stop assignments, tutorials, editing FYP, this and that, that and this..
Maybe, that's one of the test given to teach us how to manage our time efficiently, to be more systematic in life, to remain calm and steady for whatever that comes to you, to remain positive despite the unforeseen circumstances, to balance up every element in life, e.g. family, friend, study, works, spirit, wisdom, EQ etc.. I saw the hidden blessings behind, how about u? Be positive, smile, just because life has given us a chance to learn! To learn before it is getting too late........
Despite the busy life, I still wana to live my life with the philosophies~ to enjoy my life, to explore more, and to discover the beauty in life! haha.. =)
I wish, when the day finally comes, there will be some voice whispering: "I had been recording your life story, every single deeds u have done, good and bad, and here it is", "you had done a great job, you had conquered whatever tests that had given" "Congrates that you learnt the power of gratitude, love, and faith" "Congrates that you had come that far" "Congrates that you had learnt to let go" "Congrates that you have learned, without escaping, even though the process might not be that easy"... B-)
Sunday, December 1, 2013
一萝萝惊
“人生”，该如何诠释好呢？
最近发现到了很多算是她们部分的人生剧情吧？有悲，有喜，更多是惊～这算是人生的一部分吗？
"entire life is made up of bits n bites in life.. family, friends, schoolife, working life, partner, marriage, children, knowledge that we gain, skills that v acquired, lessons that v learned, places that v travel, food that we consume, sights that v enjoy....etc..this is the entire life~" from one of my close friend..
如果身边的人不快乐/有事，自己也是快乐不起的～
对身边的人好一点
人生，真的有好多”估你不到“的事，的东西，的人～
家破人亡，分离，病痛，心灵。。。
是的，我应该对你好点的。。为什么都没发现到呢？都没想到呢。。
I know sometimes, what we can do is in fact very limited, but I know and I believe that there are some hidden blessings somehow, no matter how life turns us down, either at once, or little by little..
My prayers are always with Y'll , as Y'll are made up part of my life, taking up some space in my heart! =)
“For Equilibrium, a Blessing:
Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore,
May the relief of laughter rinse through your soul.
As the wind loves to call things to dance,
May your gravity by lightened by grace.
Like the dignity of moonlight restoring the earth,
May your thoughts incline with reverence and respect.
As water takes whatever shape it is in,
So free may you be about who you become.
As silence smiles on the other side of what's said,
May your sense of irony bring perspective.
As time remains free of all that it frames,
May your mind stay clear of all it names.
May your prayer of listening deepen enough
to hear in the depths the laughter of god.”
― John O'Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings
Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore,
May the relief of laughter rinse through your soul.
As the wind loves to call things to dance,
May your gravity by lightened by grace.
Like the dignity of moonlight restoring the earth,
May your thoughts incline with reverence and respect.
As water takes whatever shape it is in,
So free may you be about who you become.
As silence smiles on the other side of what's said,
May your sense of irony bring perspective.
As time remains free of all that it frames,
May your mind stay clear of all it names.
May your prayer of listening deepen enough
to hear in the depths the laughter of god.”
― John O'Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings
“Although time seems to fly, it never travels faster than one day at a time. Each day is a new opportunity to live your life to the fullest. In each waking day, you will find scores of blessings and opportunities for positive change. Do not let your TODAY be stolen by the unchangeable past or the indefinite future! Today is a new day!”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
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