Friday, December 6, 2013

Learn before it is too late

Sometimes, I wonder, will it be too late for us to treat others better? Will v treat other people in different way if v know their little life story behind, or the struggles undergone by them? (knowing that everyone of us own a unique life story).. Will there be other chance for us to treat others better? Will it too late to realize or to reveal their life story? Would it be too late when we got to know what really happened? would it be too late the kind word, caring n support come?

Still remember I once asked: till when I would learn to be more alert, to appreciate, before v eventually had no choice but to let go? After some searching n readings through the inspiring quotes as well as own thinking and curiosity, now I realized, test will be given to us again n again, again n again, until we readily pass through those tests with consistent flying colours, perhaps~ For every test, every problems, definitely there will be solutions for it, just maybe v need to repeatedly undergo the similar tests with the same objective, till v finally find our ways out..

Lets refresh back, what tests, that v had undergone again n again, which transformed us into the person v r now?

"Everything that happens in life is neither good nor bad. It just depends on your perspective. And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should. Either you succeed or you learn something. So stay positive, appreciate the pleasant outcomes, and learn from the rest. Your positivity will rub off on everyone around you."

Sometimes, I am dreamed, dreamed that I could embrace her again.. but the moment I woke up, my heart sunk~ because that will never going to happen, till the point v meet one day.. The fact that you had left, still remained unreal to me sometimes, though you had left for almost eight months.. I know, I really know, v shouldn't cry for the same reason again n again. but it is just kinda.......during the time when u just cant stop thinking: why I don't do something when I still got the chance?! The feeling of losing someone that u have always taken granted for, that you didn't know how to appreciate, that u just know how to receive the love without giving back, but still love you more than they love themselves.....the feeling is kinda..............(no exact word can be used to describe how the feeling like~) 

I miss u, 阿嫲~Love you, 永远爱您~ <3

I really need to thank my dear friends, Shu xian, Lai yee for the instant, warmth messages when that time we are in different states due to semester break.. Still remember the time I was almost burst into tears in front of sx, as for the first time, after so long (the day before v go to Taipei, so is already about seven months), telling her the "thorns" inside my heart that stabbed on me, how I actually think & feel.. Thanks for all the kind and caring words, telling me that she wouldn't be happy too, to see you unhappy~ She can't go with peace when seeing us so sad~ Thanks also to Weng Loon, even just a simple question: 'are u ok?' had given me so much positive energy~ Thanks~ =)

Perhaps, I am still learning~ Perhaps, learning is a continuous process in life, perhaps life is a continuous learning process~ haha, do it make any difference?

"Life is about management" --988今晚最night听


Same goes with my final year uni life now, non-stop assignments, tutorials, editing FYP, this and that, that and this.. 

Maybe, that's one of the test given to teach us how to manage our time efficiently, to be more systematic in life, to remain calm and steady for whatever that comes to you, to remain positive despite the unforeseen circumstances, to balance up every element in life, e.g. family, friend, study, works, spirit, wisdom, EQ etc.. I saw the hidden blessings behind, how about u? Be positive, smile, just because life has given us a chance to learn! To learn before it is getting too late........

Despite the busy life, I still wana to live my life with the philosophies~ to enjoy my life, to explore more, and to discover the beauty in life! haha.. =)


I wish, when the day finally comes, there will be some voice whispering: "I had been recording your life story, every single deeds u have done, good and bad, and here it is", "you had done a great job, you had conquered whatever tests that had given" "Congrates that you learnt the power of  gratitude,  love, and faith" "Congrates that you had come that far" "Congrates that you had learnt to let go" "Congrates that you have learned, without escaping, even though the process might not be that easy"...  B-)

Sunday, December 1, 2013

一萝萝惊

“人生”,该如何诠释好呢?
最近发现到了很多算是她们部分的人生剧情吧?有悲,有喜,更多是惊~
这算是人生的一部分吗?

"entire life is made up of bits n bites in life.. family, friends, schoolife, working life, partner, marriage, children, knowledge that we gain, skills that v acquired, lessons that v learned, places that v travel, food that we consume, sights that v enjoy....etc..this is the entire life~" from one of my close friend..

如果身边的人不快乐/有事,自己也是快乐不起的~

对身边的人好一点
人生,真的有好多”估你不到“的事,的东西,的人~
家破人亡,分离,病痛,心灵。。。

是的,我应该对你好点的。。为什么都没发现到呢?都没想到呢。。



I know sometimes, what we can do is in fact very limited, but I know and I believe that there are some hidden blessings somehow, no matter how life turns us down, either at once, or little by little..

My prayers are always with Y'll , as Y'll are made up part of my life, taking up some space in my heart! =)

“For Equilibrium, a Blessing:
Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore,
May the relief of laughter rinse through your soul.

As the wind loves to call things to dance,
May your gravity by lightened by grace.

Like the dignity of moonlight restoring the earth,
May your thoughts incline with reverence and respect.

As water takes whatever shape it is in,
So free may you be about who you become.

As silence smiles on the other side of what's said,
May your sense of irony bring perspective.

As time remains free of all that it frames,
May your mind stay clear of all it names.

May your prayer of listening deepen enough
to hear in the depths the laughter of god.” 
― John O'DonohueTo Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings

“Although time seems to fly, it never travels faster than one day at a time. Each day is a new opportunity to live your life to the fullest. In each waking day, you will find scores of blessings and opportunities for positive change. Do not let your TODAY be stolen by the unchangeable past or the indefinite future! Today is a new day!” 
― Steve MaraboliLife, the Truth, and Being Free