Every cloud has a silver lining

My family background taught me a lesson whereby, nobody in this world has the obligation to treat you well, not even your parents or next-of-kin, not to say those who are not genetically-related to you, like friends..
Looking back, feel blissful because of my background, I learned to appreciate those that treat me so well, so protective, so voluntarily and willingly to help me.. Everything happens for a reason, Every cloud has a silver lining, everything is a good thing at the end if you believe that, sometimes it just depends on how you view it and whether you can actually find the good side of everything..
Sometimes during the silent night, will think of my beloved grandma, I miss her..
She taught me, to give whenever it is possible, before it is too late.. Because I had the experience of "dying", thus, I learned that everything has its "expiry date", so everything you do now is the preparation for the day to come, so when it comes, everything is in peace, no regrets, no stain of life..

P/S: It isn't called pessimistic to have such thought, maybe it is a proof that we have grown up we have learned~

Come to think of that: love isn't a selfish thingy in such a way that solely about you feel lonely so you need love; love should be about giving; two-way giving, mutualism, that they feel loved to have you, and so do you.. It is called love too, to see people feel loved =) Loves from family, Loves from relatives, Loves from friends, Loves from the special ones.. Yeah,, Love is powerful! It's a support, an energy to keep people moving =)

2014 has nearly come to has to the end.. Before that, I wanna to say to those: Thank You! Love you all!