Then, asked back myself: That's not what you want? Isn't you said you want to be a stronger, wiser, better, positive person? Isn't you want to learn more life lessons? Isn't that results from your choice to undergo all these?!
And yeah! That's what you "request" for, and there comes the ways to get the results and answers!
People being 'cold'/ 'cruel' to u/ give help unwillingly or with conditions- those are the people that make you grow to be a stronger, tolerant, independent, smarter n wiser one..
People who give you helps, kindness, love, care without any condition- those are the people that keep you moving, that bring hopes to you again when you are just feeling too hopeless to keep going, that make you belief in yourself even if you loss faith on yourself, that make you smile again when you think that you won't be able to smile again, to make your heart warmth when you think that the world is just against you, that brighten up your world again when you think that the end of the day has come to you, that motivate you when you are just too tired with the future ahead, that touched and melted your closed heart, that made you felt the love when you are almost fully occupied by negative stuffs..
Both of these two types of people have transformed you to be a better person.. =) However, the difference is, no matter how strong a people can be, they may get tired one day if there is no LOVE that brings them hope =) Love, that most matters after all.. Sorry but frankly speaking, I have more sense of belongings and feel more secured, appreciate more to those that made me feel the love and positive energies! Cherish them more hahaha! kinda bias n prejudice, but that's how I actually feel *being true to self* Needless to ingratiate own-self with others/into someone's life, right? =P
Stop doubting yourself; stop being negative; stop being mean; stop being lazy; stop complaining; stop being selfish; stop wasting time, stop making promises; stop being a pushover; Just Stop, and Breathe! (From: 奥巴马写给女儿的公开信)
“人活着是为了临死前不留遗憾～” =）
所以现在所做的，所想的，所说的，所决定的，所承受的，都应跟随这标准吧！
Perhaps, I am so blur, seemed unable to protect own-self, that's why there are many kind people around that protect me, psychologically n physically?? Appreciate that so much =) Just like how one of my best friend, Shi Yew told me why she first took the initiative to approach me? whenever i think of it, I still feel touched, oh dear! ^^ Perhaps, I like the feeling of being protected too lolz haha.. =P Thanks to those who always protect and care of me that much, unconditionally! U guys r like my angels, warmed n lighted up my world through actions, even just a small but lovely actions will do^^ and you know, from you guys, I found my mission in life! =)
一起加油！파이팅! <3
一个经得起风吹雨打热晒雨淋外柔内刚的我，취텡 : )
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