Sunday, June 21, 2015

Another touching moment from them

那天搭巴士回家,七点的票没了,就买了个十点的票。。然后立即打电话给伯父伯母通知他们会迟回。。
那时才六点多七点,还有三粒钟,就在那边坐累了就走走,走累了就坐坐那样"he".. 后来看到他们的miss call, 就赶紧call他们。。然后他们说:你出到toll 就call给我们啦,然后我们去接你的,一个人那么夜很危险的 (estimate回到约半夜十二点多一点)。。
过后就按照他们的做啦,虽然本来打算叛逆的,可最后还是听话到toll call 他们。。
到了Shell, 走着走着,隐隐约约好像是伯父,看清楚真的是他,拿着条棍,(不知怎的,每次回去看他们总觉得他们的白发多了。。),然后陪着我走回去。。然后回到去,见到伯母在那里等着。。还说,已铺好床单,被单枕头也拿出来啦。。然后问我要吃粽吗,我说不了。。要冲凉吗?噢,要。。然后帮我开热水。。
我。。真的想哭了。。
我。。觉得太自私了,方便自己(我可以买明早的票啊,但我没有)却累了他们。。

This is when CNY this year :-)
This is when 端午节this year~ =D
阿娘她说,要很多工,但这样很热闹。。
辛苦了,谢谢~

要将每次感动的时刻统统地记载着=)

谢谢你们,爱你们,到我最后一口气也一直一直那么爱你们!

^^
咱们深情对望着=P
Zai Zai & BoBo

These were when I was back to KL, stayed a while at cousin bro's there.. just love those pics.. haha.. Thanks Chong gor for taking these =) 

Monday, June 15, 2015

Meaning

曾经有想要参与跨国义工,觉得很伟大;可以奉献;很有意思很有价值;后知后决领悟到,其实奉献,不一定必须要跨国的,不需要有什么特定的活动才可以奉献的,而是,无论身在何处,都可以实践的。。
"Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do... but how much love we put in that action."--Mother Teresa

“不需要觉得不好意思,只要记住别人对你的好,然后以同样的方式对别人好,那样的良性循环着~” 记住了某人跟我说过的这句话。。第一次听就只“噢”,可后来不知怎的想起这句话,然后慢慢想去感受那股正能量。。(因为对我好的人真的好多,他&她们总是能让我感动着)

My new HR manager once told me:"Function of HR is to take care of the staff, at the meantime discipline them", "Take care especially those lower income group", "If we can't feel for the staff, don't be HR", "there is certain expectation from the upper level".
See so lucky I met someone who is so patient and considerate..

Sometimes we do feel sympathy (sometimes empathy maybe) towards those suffered with life-threatening illness or those with family tragedy etc.. we feel sympathy the moment we get to know about their story, but somehow we forget that everyone have their own unique life story.. Henceforth be patient with those irritating ones, perhaps they have their own "illness" which we might not know.. lolz..

We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.
-- Mother Teresa

It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.
― Mother Teresa

At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made, how many great things we have done.
We will be judged by “I was hungry, and you gave me something to eat, I was naked and you clothed me. I was homeless, and you took me in.
― Mother Teresa

“Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you.”
― Mother Teresa

It doesn't define who you are when you are relaxing, enjoying your coffee, chit-chatting, lying on the bed etc, but when you are feeling stressed, being unfair etc.. Those tough situation is the times where it determines who you are, what type of person you are..
侯文詠說:「人在最困難的時刻,所做的選擇,就证明了你是怎麼樣的一個人。」
“你用什么价值去衡量或者去判断你的人生,到最后你会变成一个怎么样的人,因为你用哪个去衡量,你就会做出什么样的决定,你做出什么样的决定,你会变成一个什么样子的人~”
内在的价值,决定一个人对自己限制能有多宽多远。。
真正决定那个角色是在他最困难,两难的时候,他不晓得该怎么办,他压力最大得时候,然后他所做的行动,跟他所做的决定,就决定了这个人是个怎么样的人~
烈士或漢奸,看你怎麼選?
你只要做那个决定,再坳下去你就会变成那种人~
真正的困难是因为它是想象的。。
什么东西能够去对抗那个困难,同样的也是个想象,因为困难是想象的,所以能够对抗它的,也是另外一个想象,那个想象是一个意义,就是你对它提供的一个意义,你才有办法利用那个想象中的意义,去面对想象中的困难~

角度。。
Because there is always some I will call it as distraction and interruption while doing my work, dunno y changed my mindset in such a way that: 不要怕被烦,只怕没人烦;宁可呼吸时有人烦,好过死了有麻烦。。
哈哈。。Please bear with my lousy language.. =P

If you can find yourself a meaning in what you are doing, then you will  find the meanings in life, definitely you will feel happy with your life.. =)