after 6 years

wow,  finally we met up after six years, how time flies!! never thought that we would meet each other up, and so much thanks to you, bx,  for helping me up, fetching me here n there, giving me direction and sparing your precious time with me which I in return didn't cherish u much due to my indecisive personality, sorry :'(

We both have grown, changed in personality? hmm, not pretty sure~ but it's okay, u r still a good and kind friend as before, I know (^_^)

Whenever I have some negative mind, there will have someone/something that warmed my "frozen" heart again, unexpectedly.. oh my frens, why u all r so special, in terms of u guys' unconditional and involuntarily kindness, loveliness, thoughtfulness?? The fact is they don't have any obligation to lift u, to help u, to accompany u, they really don't have to, not at all.. but they still give u their kindness, their time.. Touched and blessed to have this kind of people as part of my life =)

Oh my God, how can I forget this time?

My blog, to remind myself, even though sometimes, facts maybe cruel, people maybe inhumane, world maybe fake, there are some real and beautiful people that have colored my life all these while =) and because of this, life is beautiful, with the love from u people! and it is even more precious more priceless as they shine for you when everything u see are almost black =) and so to those, you all are the angels in my life! =)

对你不好的人，你不要太介意，没有人有义务要对你好；你学到的知识，就是你拥有的武器，可以白手起家，但不可以手无寸铁；你怎么待人，并不代表别人怎么待你，如果看不透这一点，只会徒增烦恼；亲人只有一次的缘分，好好珍惜，下辈子，无论爱与不爱，都不会再见～

 有人帮你，是你的幸运；无人帮你，是公正的命运；因为生命是你自己的，你得为自己负责～

心里常存感激，不要以为一切都是理所应当的～

不要执着，人生有很多不如意，世界不会迎合你，地球不是为你转的，所以不要执着于拥有，我们只是红尘的过客，赤条条来，赤条条去，生带不来，死带不去，该拥有的就拥有，该失去的就失去，本来就带条命来的，最后命也得还了去！执着什么呢！

生活是一面镜子，我们如何面对它，它就会如何馈赠我们。背不动的，要放下；伤不起的，要看淡；想不通的，可以不想；恨不过的，要抚平。有时，尽管我们已经很努力，仍然得不到幸运之神的青睐，只能说明，该转弯了。付出不一定有收获，收获却一定要付出努力。

塞翁失马，焉知非福

Heard this song in 988 radio~ still remember I love this song sooo muchhh since long time ago..

我知道伤心不能改变什么
那么~让我诚实一点
诚实~难免有不能控制的宣泄
只有关上了门 不必理谁
一个人坐在空荡包厢里面
手机~让它休息一夜
难~想切歌 切掉回忆的画面
眼泪不能流过十二点

还要时间 才能平衡  ——温岚 《祝我生日快乐》

I think I have become much better in solving some technical problems, alone.. lolz =)

Thanks sk for the caring call! It means a lot to me.. Oh my dear, never thought that u would call me up upon seeing my fb msg~ Thanks!

Perhaps in some situations, it is not really the right time to give lessons, not the right time to blame on the people, they already feel bad, don't need to make them feel the worst~

So thanks for the kindness given at the right time, without thinking of return.. Will always keep that in mind, as it is rare in fact =)

n yeahhh, I do have the feeling that it is  unnecessary to show how much you concern, or how much you care, or how much you want to give your helping hands or your shoulders to, after the person have already struggled through.. No need anymore for the late concern(s)~

Then, I reflect on myself, maybe my grandma feel the same as well?: That's too late to show your love.. You should have show it earlier..

"没有拥有就没有失去”

"塞翁失马，焉知非福"， again, i tried to pursuade myself with this quote, it really helpful last times, and it really brought me the sunshine after the rain for quite many times, and.. Arggrgghhh~ frankly I am kinda negative this time as it is not the first time to encounter it, kinda tiring, frustrating, y y y, but these feelings of emo won't last long, with hope : )