塞翁失马，焉知非福

Heard this song in 988 radio~ still remember I love this song sooo muchhh since long time ago..

我知道伤心不能改变什么
那么~让我诚实一点
诚实~难免有不能控制的宣泄
只有关上了门 不必理谁
一个人坐在空荡包厢里面
手机~让它休息一夜
难~想切歌 切掉回忆的画面
眼泪不能流过十二点

还要时间 才能平衡  ——温岚 《祝我生日快乐》

I think I have become much better in solving some technical problems, alone.. lolz =)

Thanks sk for the caring call! It means a lot to me.. Oh my dear, never thought that u would call me up upon seeing my fb msg~ Thanks!

Perhaps in some situations, it is not really the right time to give lessons, not the right time to blame on the people, they already feel bad, don't need to make them feel the worst~

So thanks for the kindness given at the right time, without thinking of return.. Will always keep that in mind, as it is rare in fact =)

n yeahhh, I do have the feeling that it is  unnecessary to show how much you concern, or how much you care, or how much you want to give your helping hands or your shoulders to, after the person have already struggled through.. No need anymore for the late concern(s)~

Then, I reflect on myself, maybe my grandma feel the same as well?: That's too late to show your love.. You should have show it earlier..

"没有拥有就没有失去”

"塞翁失马，焉知非福"， again, i tried to pursuade myself with this quote, it really helpful last times, and it really brought me the sunshine after the rain for quite many times, and.. Arggrgghhh~ frankly I am kinda negative this time as it is not the first time to encounter it, kinda tiring, frustrating, y y y, but these feelings of emo won't last long, with hope : )

责任心

在想，做事能持之以恒，不轻易放弃，不怨天尤人的人，大概他/她是发自内心去做的，而不是为了做而做。。或许因为热情所以坚持到底，但也因为热情发自于内心。。
发自内心，所以能够不放弃坚持下去；而把要做的事做好，就得看责任心，有多认真, 自律和逼紧。。自律或许就是一直，不间断地去实施。。责任心重的人做事是谨慎细心的，如果没看见变化，某程度上或许还不够用心，那就再加多些的用心，那时听电台那么说着 : )

When your thoughts, your speeches, and your actions are parallel, only then both our body (physical part) and our soul (inner part) will be in harmony, only then v will feel right n good.. if not, perhaps, our feelings will tell us the answer~ Just observe our own emotions/feelings, they are good indicators,  if our body and our soul "agree" with each other~ lolz..

everyone is someone we can learn from =)
不计较，不怕吃亏的人，是获益最多的人 =)
每个艰辛的过程，都是让自身增值的机会, 都是在为未来更好地做准备=)

通过种种难关的乌鸦，就再也不是只普通的乌鸦了～

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One year has passed, U already left for one year.. A fact that still remain unreal to me.. Sun still rise, but U r no longer there..I can't no longer hear U, hold U, see Ur lovely smile.. No longer can be.. I have learnt more, have grown to be a stronger one, and wish to be a better one, but I still miss U n Love U more than before.. Thanks for the everything, 阿嫲 Forever loving U =)

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Thanks Jez shi yew, u can always make my heart so warmth.. even if u r not beside me, even if I didn't tell u something that had happened, but, just by hearing your voice can really make me feel the warmth, strength and courage (^_^)